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@unicorn ну и все мы будем морально и материально готовы
@unicorn ес-но после того, как я выжму все что могу из Я, и стану фрилансить
everyone I live with is poly (well maybe not chirkova but I don't know much about her) and sometimes just plainly forget monogamous people exist. I get reminded about it harshly, for ex today I was reading manga abt love triangle and subconsciously expected them all to get together and couldn't help to feel disappointment when they didn't. my exp with being poly is very similar to my exp with being bisexual. bigots and their asshattery aside, I feel isolated.
like I just don't expect people to act okay about this. some get anxious, dad or disgusted about it (my mom legit cried harder when I told her about poly stuff, then when I came out as a lesb years ago). some just say shit like, "I just don't get it" which is a code for "you are not valid, your family is not real" which is an attitude I experience mostly with non-violent homophobes when they realise I'm queer. sometimes this shit is coming from other queer ppl. this is just sad.
people mostly assume it's a sexual thing and go as far to say to me they don't need to know stuff about my sexual life when I do smth as innocent as mention my partners (plural). only positive rep I can think of is sense8 which I dislike profoundly. other shit like "the dreamers" and such is fetishistic or ends up tragically (with two people OF COURSE staying together and one that fucks off).
that's not an adequate rep. that is as much an adequate rep as yaois are an adequate rep of gay relationships. poly people don't spike vicious hatred in others, but the amount of erasure is astonishing. being afab nonbinary bisexual polyamorous person equals to not existing at all in any capacity for the world at large. it's still better than being persecuted and murdered, but the amount of psychological stress I undergo because of erasure is fucked up
I can marry one of my partners - not in russia, but at least it's theoretically possible, and that means a world to me. but at the same time I can't not being bitter? there's not a place in the world where I can marry both of them. we can never be legally protected as a family. I don't even know words that would describe our relationship apart from general ones. what is the equivalent of "couple" for poly people? I dunno. and if you don't think that's fucked up, well fuck you.
@Ninarina plz add me in Pokémon go 7072 7107 4108
hey everyone! i'm mixlii and my favorite thing to draw is gay people being gay
@unicorn прям пиздец как хуево от отсутствия чувства финансовой стабильности и присутствия чувства финансовой ответственности
28 y.o., nb, they/them, she/her, poli, pan, ENFP, ru, eng, ua
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